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witchofkeys:

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It’s okay to screw your diet, they suck lol. I just know that you’re not a bad person and it’d prolly help you to remember that. 🙂 (that last sentence spuds harsh as crap wow! Don’t mean it offensively lol)

It did sound a little wrong in tone, but that’s okay. Text can be a bitch when it comes to tone and conveying meaning. 
I’m just, yet again, faced with the fact that when things with the family go wrong (people get sick or aren’t well) I tend to be a distancer. I don’t like to deal with it, really. I’ll sooner remove myself from the equation than subject myself to the pain and worry. 

Yeah couldn’t figure out the right phrasing lol.

Yeah honestly I do the same thing. It’s easier to pull away and that’s the current relationship with my parents. If you want you could try to fix it but if you think it’s healthier you can stay away. Just do what you think is right. 🙂

I mean… wight now it’s a situation where my great aunt is having medical trouble after surgery. Her mind seems to be gone and they’re hoping she’s just dehydrated, but if she’s not they’re going to look into why. There’s nothing I can really do about it at this point but wait with the rest of the family.

The anger comes from the fact that my cousin, her granddaughter, is in Nashville with her bf for the CMT awards and not even giving two fucks that her grandma may have a serious medical problem. I’m livid and I could rip her apart verbally if she were here. So there;s no relationship to fix, really. It’s just shitty events that I can’t do anything about.

Yay says the control freak! >_<