Blunt Honesty Night – Amethyst’s Archive

I have a question! What is your opinion of the argument that you can use fake, artificial or even digital representations of anything you would need in a spell? Example: candle app or scented fragrances. Thanks!

I believe that as long as you have the right intent and the items work for you there’s no problem. Now when we get into specific herbs that are called for because of their properties I have to say that there’s a big difference. There’s a lot of discussion out there about using the specificContinue reading “I have a question! What is your opinion of the argument that you can use fake, artificial or even digital representations of anything you would need in a spell? Example: candle app or scented fragrances. Thanks!”

BHN; I know what I need to do to progress on my path (meditate, pray, read my holy books), and I’m usually super motivated, but I just can’t get myself going on this one

Could there be a reason you’re lacking motivation on this area? Could you be subconsciously dreading something to do with it? Could growth in this area be scaring you and you don’t realize it? Take a long hard, HONEST, look at why you’re stalling and work on that. That’s all I got.

What is your opinion on feminism?

FEMINISM IS THA SHIT AND EVERYONE SHOULD TRY IT! That’s all I got to say.

Hello! Thank you for taking time out of your day to read this! I’m looking into my family history to find roots in a particular form of witchcraft, but I’ve never seen practices outside of Celtic, Hellenistic, or Kemetic and google searches in the time period & location aren’t bringing anything up (Prussia 1820s-1860s and Nova Scotia 1700s). Do you happen to know of any resources that could help me find lesser known forms of witchcraft? BHN!!

I, honestly, have no resources to help you. My family were all located in the same area as far back as like 6 generations, so I’m really no help. Followers?!?! Resources on this kind of thing at all!?!?! HELP!!! lol

BHN: Do you actually get to do as much witchy stuff as you would like?

Honestly… “get to” isn’t the thing for me… get motivated to is more my fucking problem. I have enough time and shit to do whatever I want, but getting my ass up and doing it is completely different. *sigh* So lazy. Plus wedding is taking front and center atm, so there’s that too. Yay. Fun. S.O.S.Continue reading “BHN: Do you actually get to do as much witchy stuff as you would like?”

BHN: My boyfriend is an atheist and believes all religions are silly or “stupid.” I want to be able to talk about my religion freely, since it’s an important part of my life, but I don’t want to get into more arguments with him. What should I do?

Honestly… If he can’t realize that this is important to you and adjust his attitude to at LEAST respect your beliefs… fuck him. You don’t need that kind of negativity in your life. If your religion is that important to you then you shouldn’t have to try to tiptoe around this guy stepping all overContinue reading “BHN: My boyfriend is an atheist and believes all religions are silly or “stupid.” I want to be able to talk about my religion freely, since it’s an important part of my life, but I don’t want to get into more arguments with him. What should I do?”

I have a hard time letting myself relax and stop working. Like, I have stressed myself out to the point of having horrible migraines, constant stress dreams, and nose bleeds before. With school starting up again I’m a bit worried that I may end up working myself too hard again. I’ve been doing so well lately and I don’t want to ruin all of that. Any advice? This is for blunt honesty night (BHN) of course.

Honestly… Sometimes you just gotta say “Fuck it” and let things happen how they will. Don’t let school get to you so much. Yes I’m aware that’s WAY easier said than done. Maybe take up Meditation or something similar that can ease your stress levels. Find more efficient schedules for studying that won’t work you soContinue reading “I have a hard time letting myself relax and stop working. Like, I have stressed myself out to the point of having horrible migraines, constant stress dreams, and nose bleeds before. With school starting up again I’m a bit worried that I may end up working myself too hard again. I’ve been doing so well lately and I don’t want to ruin all of that. Any advice? This is for blunt honesty night (BHN) of course.”

BHN lol how should I try getting over my shyness with people idk especially with people I’m interested in?

Honestly… Fake it til you make it! Just go out there and put on a confident mask. Be charming and pretend to be that beautiful confident creature you want to be. ‘Cause guess what? After awhile you won’t be pretending anymore and you WILL be as confident as you want to be. Boom! Simple right? It willContinue reading “BHN lol how should I try getting over my shyness with people idk especially with people I’m interested in?”

I’m super new at this – how should I “talk” to gods? How can I invite them into my home or share my meals with them? There may not be a “perfect” answer but any advice would be great!

You didn’t say BHN, but I’ll be nicely blunt on this one… Honestly… Just talk to them! Make a time every day to say something like a little prayer to your God(s) and just thank them for all they do. Be vocal in your appreciation of them and do it as often as you feelContinue reading “I’m super new at this – how should I “talk” to gods? How can I invite them into my home or share my meals with them? There may not be a “perfect” answer but any advice would be great!”