(Polynon) thank you for the advice hahaha <3 friend has hinted that she is interested in me and very interested in the same relationship style I am but my awkward ass always deflects her flirts with vague spirit talk. I guess it's just fear that's keeping me from talking to her because she's such a lovely person, it'd feel lame if this talk made her uncomfortable. Anyway, thank you again!

Not a problem! I can understand the deflecting. I have a tendency to do that with any kind of compliments, honestly.  Again I hope you talk with her and things work out for you all. ❤

I have the biggest crush on one of my friends, and my husband totally ships us together hahaha (we’re poly and she is too ish) and I really feel like I should pursue this bUT I DONT KNOW HOW

Oooh, uhm. Well my best advice would be to have a serious talk with the friend about all of it. I mean you can’t really do anything about it without knowing how she feels, right? Be honest with them and just see where it goes. That’s the best advice I have, honestly. Communication is aContinue reading “I have the biggest crush on one of my friends, and my husband totally ships us together hahaha (we’re poly and she is too ish) and I really feel like I should pursue this bUT I DONT KNOW HOW”

♡Loving Honesty Night ♡

witchofkeys: (Formerly Brutal Honesty Night) I’m available for all your questions and asks.I will answer all Asks with honesty and advice that I feel can help the asker. I’m not in this to hurt feelings. Anon is on for your privacy and convenience. Add “LHN” to you messages so I’ll know to tag it appropriately.Continue reading “♡Loving Honesty Night ♡”

LHN- I came to Tumblr hoping for a safe space, but some people have made it so unbearable. I just try to make it my way.

I know that feel, nonny. I try to make my blog and the content I post as upbeat and safe as I can. I try to be as nice and welcoming as I can, because people on here can be SO rude and terrible to one another. If you (or any of my followers) ever needContinue reading “LHN- I came to Tumblr hoping for a safe space, but some people have made it so unbearable. I just try to make it my way.”

LHN yay I love these!! I think I have feelings for a girl and I just want to do holiday fun stuff with her and play with her hair until she falls asleep but I’m worried my feelings are just my mental illness clinging onto someone. It’s making me doubt myself and it’s so shitty

Is this a recent thing? Did this just start out of nowhere or have you gradually seen her around and fallen for her? I can’t tell you if it’s for real or not, unfortunately. That’s something you will have to search deep and figure out for yourself. I do wish for the best for youContinue reading “LHN yay I love these!! I think I have feelings for a girl and I just want to do holiday fun stuff with her and play with her hair until she falls asleep but I’m worried my feelings are just my mental illness clinging onto someone. It’s making me doubt myself and it’s so shitty”

Is there a post you made that you noticed really bumped up your name recognition? I’m kind of wondering what other people’s original content is and what I should do for myself as well. LHN

My most notable post is the dumbest thing ever, as it is with most people I think. And that would be THIS post. I don’t know why it took off like it did, maybe because it’s so relatable, but it did. I’ve gained quite a few followers off of reblogs of that post. As forContinue reading “Is there a post you made that you noticed really bumped up your name recognition? I’m kind of wondering what other people’s original content is and what I should do for myself as well. LHN”

LHN: I’m falling back into my depression and I feel completely alone. The biggest depression is the fact that I’m not in a relationship. My last one was v abusive and all I want right now is a new, good one but there’s nothing. I feel so alone.

It’s hard to do, but maybe you need to spend some time on yourself. Take some self care time and let yourself heal before you start out on a new relationship. You’re never truly alone. I’m sure there are people who love you and would be there for you if you let them know thatContinue reading “LHN: I’m falling back into my depression and I feel completely alone. The biggest depression is the fact that I’m not in a relationship. My last one was v abusive and all I want right now is a new, good one but there’s nothing. I feel so alone.”

LHN. I find myself now, a few months down the road from when I first saw it happening, that I’ve distanced myself from my “friends.” I’m still 100% happy and healthy and enjoying every hour of the day, but when I get home, there’s no one to have deep conversations with or hang out with.

onyxmade: witchofkeys: Were these “friends” good for your mental health? Were they supportive and caring? Did they do things for you out of kindness instead of just wanting things constantly?   If you answered “No” to most or all of these questions I say you’re better off without them. Everyone needs friends, in some capacity, to ventContinue reading “LHN. I find myself now, a few months down the road from when I first saw it happening, that I’ve distanced myself from my “friends.” I’m still 100% happy and healthy and enjoying every hour of the day, but when I get home, there’s no one to have deep conversations with or hang out with.”

LHN ILY. But also, religious feels – I’m extremely jealous of people who know exactly what to consider themselves/who they follow/are devoted to.

I know those feels SO well! I may seem like I’ve got this all figured out and maybe I kind of do for the moment, but not that long ago I didn’t know what to believe or who to believe in. I was considering myself Agnostic, but constantly feeling this unidentified pull from somewhere. IContinue reading “LHN ILY. But also, religious feels – I’m extremely jealous of people who know exactly what to consider themselves/who they follow/are devoted to.”

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