LHN – Page 2 – Amethyst’s Archive

LHN. (First anon about the friends.) Some people just develop at different paces, and a few of those “friends” had kind of just stopped growing and turned inside themselves. That really bad tumblr-mindset where you surround yourself with depression blogs. I couldn’t help them. They didn’t want help, and I know there wasn’t anything I could do. But I just couldn’t stand to be with them anymore; they kept sucking the energy out of my life. So I know it was good to move on. (cont’d)

And I’m looking for online friends. I made my best friend online, haha. We dated and then broke up, and he’s still my best friend. But we’re not at the level we used to be. It really sucks. It’s difficult to find more online friends. I’m so desperate for human contact though, I sound ridiculous. Continue reading “LHN. (First anon about the friends.) Some people just develop at different paces, and a few of those “friends” had kind of just stopped growing and turned inside themselves. That really bad tumblr-mindset where you surround yourself with depression blogs. I couldn’t help them. They didn’t want help, and I know there wasn’t anything I could do. But I just couldn’t stand to be with them anymore; they kept sucking the energy out of my life. So I know it was good to move on. (cont’d)”

For honesty hour: witchcraft, being psychic and witch and mental health. Like how do you take care of your mental health when you are one? obviously you can’t go to psychologist with some traumas that are caused by non-mundane problems. example: being overwhelmed because you are empath or getting too attached to ghost or guide. Your opinion?

You learn to get creative. You learn how to take care of yourself and heal. Some spells are good for things like that. Emotional healing and such. For empathy you work on shielding and personal protection so that you aren’t so easily overwhelmed. Shielding, like intuition, is like a muscle. You work with it andContinue reading “For honesty hour: witchcraft, being psychic and witch and mental health. Like how do you take care of your mental health when you are one? obviously you can’t go to psychologist with some traumas that are caused by non-mundane problems. example: being overwhelmed because you are empath or getting too attached to ghost or guide. Your opinion?”

LHN- I think I might love my girlfriend, but I don’t think she’s as invested in our relationship as I am. I guess it’s partially my fault, because I’ve never been very physically affectionate, or even very loving with my words and such. Every time I try, she starts acting awkward and I stop almost immediately. I want to open up to her, but I’m afraid it’s too soon because we’ve only been together for a few months. Any advice?

I’d sit down and talk openly with her. Tell her you want to be honest and open with each other, because if you can’t do that in a relationship there’s really no point. Tell her that you care deeply for her (even if you don’t use the L word yet) and that you’d like to knowContinue reading “LHN- I think I might love my girlfriend, but I don’t think she’s as invested in our relationship as I am. I guess it’s partially my fault, because I’ve never been very physically affectionate, or even very loving with my words and such. Every time I try, she starts acting awkward and I stop almost immediately. I want to open up to her, but I’m afraid it’s too soon because we’ve only been together for a few months. Any advice?”

LHN. Picking a college is shit, my dude

I wouldn’t know, honestly. I never went to college. My best advice is pick the school with the most classes and activities that suit your likes and style. You’ll be happier there than in a place that has nothing to keep you involved and interested. ♡

LHN. I find myself now, a few months down the road from when I first saw it happening, that I’ve distanced myself from my “friends.” I’m still 100% happy and healthy and enjoying every hour of the day, but when I get home, there’s no one to have deep conversations with or hang out with.

Were these “friends” good for your mental health? Were they supportive and caring? Did they do things for you out of kindness instead of just wanting things constantly? If you answered “No” to most or all of these questions I say you’re better off without them. Everyone needs friends, in some capacity, to vent with andContinue reading “LHN. I find myself now, a few months down the road from when I first saw it happening, that I’ve distanced myself from my “friends.” I’m still 100% happy and healthy and enjoying every hour of the day, but when I get home, there’s no one to have deep conversations with or hang out with.”

♡Loving Honesty Night ♡

(Formerly Brutal Honesty Night) I’m available for all your questions for a few hours.I will answer all Asks with honesty and advice that I feel can help the asker. I’m not in this to hurt feelings. Anon is on for your privacy and convenience. Add “LHN” to you messages so I’ll know to tag itContinue reading “♡Loving Honesty Night ♡”